so i know i haven't blogged in a long ass while, but this is worth me posting. AMEN to the sistaa that wrote this that i just had to re-blog.
"Alright guys, it's time for me to do some schooling. There is a HUGE problem going on in the world today. Today's generation is good at getting laid, not romanticizing and falling in love. Taking advantage of circumstance and not paying attention to consequence, we go around playing each other and not really appreciating what our significant other does for us, and sorry GUYS but its mostly you. Now dont go jumping on me saying i'm attacking you when i'm not; some of us are lucky to have pretty decent guys. but not everyone, and thats why im writing this.
this is for the ride or die chicks, the diamond girls, the females that stand by their man and get little to no recognition; or no real commitment.
women are KNOWN for being loyal, caring, and nurturing to their man. we have huge hearts, we have crazy emotions, and when we love you this is a TRUE and strong love. there are some women that go above and beyond expectations, the wifey material girls. when our guy is bitching about his workload and how his boss isnt appreciating him, we're there, massaging his back; even when he starts taking out his frustrations on us. when he is sick and incapacitated and basically like a newborn baby, we're there getting that soup wether its homecooked or Campbell's or store bought. when our man is going through tough times and cant afford to take us to the restaurant he promised or the get us the gift we deserve on our anniversary, we're there, taking it for the team.
SO TELL ME WHY, and WHERE guys get off taking all this for granted? You know there are some shady chicks and some girls that are selfish and independent, and will send you to the store to get your own damn medecine. You should be counting your blessings everyday you have a girl there by your side, riding and dying every day for you. all around the world you see the stories of men leaving the women that made them who they are, were with them not in good times but horrible times, and the second they get success they dont need their rocks anymore? there is even a movie, the first wives club, about it. I am outraged at the fact that guys are willing to spend $400 on a phone and cant get their diamond girl some flowers, or bring them their favorite food. Guys wonder why women are so moody! We take that birth control for you, which messes up the internal system, and you're too embarrased to get your girl some tampons? its a DAMN SHAME the amount of work some women do, and they do it cause they love your goofy butt. dont take advantage, because remember those shady girls i mentioned? GUESS HOW THEY GOT THAT WAY. fellas with their girls for over 2 years and dont wanna get their girl a ring to show some commitment, dont wanna do their share of chores, or help cook, or even say thank you........and they wonder why their girl leaves. like beyonce said.... If you like it you shoulda put a ring on it! because trust me, what you dont appreciate, someone else will reciprocate.
even MTV is capitalizing on this, with their new show "Is she really going out with him?" In episode 3 'The hustler douche', I realized I knew that girl! Allie, she was in a modeling contest with me last year and she won 1st place! (I got second). and seeing the way her boyfriend was treating her.....Oh no. he even KNEW she was his ride or die, and after three years of dating wouldnt even propose. hopefully seeing himself on this episode will wake his dumb a UP. hasnt any guy seen the movie 'the break up'? they should, maybe then you would see what happens when you dont appreciate a class A woman.
Im sick and tired of my friends coming to me and telling me how they do all the work, how they go above and beyond for their man...and their man would rather play videogames or obsess over their stupid phones or cars. because pieces of metal are going to be there for you right? and when youre crying over family or work (you know you do dont lie), im sure your phone will let you cry all over it. WRONG phones dont work with tear damage, fellas. im sure your car will laugh at all of your not funny jokes, do your stanky laundry and wont cringe at the smell or stains; and i know your computer will cook you your favorite meal when youve had the worst day at work. of course my girls wont leave because they are blinded by love but not only THAT, they are strong women that dont give up on their men, they stand by them even though they dont deserve it; its just the kind of women they are. i wont get into the trifling fools that do the cheating, the lying, and all that other bull. this is for the aight-decent guys that are just kinda dumb with the girl department. i dont mess with bad guys, neither should any girl.
So the next time you sense your girl being dissapointed, AND YOU KNOW WHEN THAT IS DONT PLAY, go outta your way to give her a hug, a kiss, a thank you, and make it up to her. and when you know your girl is the one, you better let her know and show her she is.
or dont. but dont be mad when you see another dude with your beautiful, smart, funny, loyal diamond girl.
get the point?
ill leave you with this."
-themassesblog
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